Behavior of parents and children

 What is the song of duty?

Behavior of parents towards children 👈

There is a reward for voluntary actions. A brother wanted to get the reward for the action he did out of duty! The whole world is looking for rewards, saying, ‘I did so much, don’t you know? You don’t value me.’ Hey

Behavior of parents and children

Brother, why are you looking for a reward? Whatever I did, I did it out of duty! A man was arguing with his son, and then I scolded him. He kept saying, ‘I took a loan to educate you. If you hadn’t taken a loan, would you have been able to study? You would have walked.’ Brother, why are we talking nonsense unnecessarily? We cannot say that it is your duty! This son is a good man. If someone asked him, ‘Who taught you?’ what would you have answered? Do you talk like a madman like this? You are a fool, an ignorant person, who knows nothing.

Everything should be done for the children. But if the children say, ‘No, father, it’s enough now.’ Still, the father does not leave him, then what will happen? If the children raise red flags, shouldn’t we understand? What do you think?

And if he says that I have to do business, then we should make some way for the business. The father who goes too deep into this is a fool. If he is stuck in the job, then we should tie up whatever we have. When he is in trouble, then we should send a thousand or two thousand. But he always keeps asking. Then the son says, ‘Are you refusing me or don’t interfere in my words?’ Then the father says, ‘He has not understood now, that’s why he is saying this.’ Hey, you have stopped this; it’s good that you have removed the problem. The son himself is refusing you!!

Questioner: Which is the right way? Will we take care of the children here or will they come with us for our welfare?

Dadashri: Children are taking care of themselves. How will you take care of them? The main religion is to take care of yourself. Otherwise, these children are taken care of. Are you raising the children? If you plant a rose in the garden, will it grow overnight or not?

Behavior of parents and children

We accept that it is my rose, but the rose understands that I am myself. Not someone else's. Everyone is motivated by their own self-interest. This is what we are doing, acting foolishly. We are acting foolishly.

Questioner: If we do not water the rose, then the rose will wither.

Dadashri: If we do not water it, it will not happen! If we do not take good care of the son, then the son will run to bite him, or else he will throw stones.

Now how can we balance religious duties with carrying out worldly duties? Even if the son is talking nonsense, we should not forget our religion and fulfill our duty. What is your religion? To nurture and raise the son, to guide him on the right path. Now he speaks wrongly and you also speak wrongly, what will be the result? He will become spoiled. Therefore, one should explain to him with love that, brother, sit down, look, this is how it is. That is, there should be dharma in all the duties. If there is no dharma, then injustice will enter in its place. The room will not be empty. Now, if we leave the house empty, will people open the lock and enter or not?

In fact, what is the real dharma of women at home? Everyone around will say, "Wow! What can I say!" To perform dharma in such a way that the people around will be happy. Therefore, the real dharma of a woman is to take care of the children, to give them good education; if the husband's education is lacking, then to sprinkle education. To improve everything in oneself, that is called dharma. Don't you have to improve?

What do some people do? They remain in the devotion of God, but they look down on children. In those in whom God has appeared, they look down on such children and go there doing devotion to God, that is called a devotee! Should we be angry with these children? Hey! There is a God manifest within them!

Behavior of parents and children