Behavior of parents towards children

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Behavior of parents towards children

Question: Here in America there is money, but there is no reform and the atmosphere around here is like that, so what can we do about it?

Dadashri: First of all parents should be reformed. Again

Children will not go out. Parents should be such that the children will not go away from seeing their love. Parents should be so loving. You are responsible if the child needs to be corrected. You are bound by love to children. Don't you understand?

Our people should give a very high level of education to our children. Many people in America say that 'our children are eating meat and doing so many things'. I asked, 'Are you eating meat?' Then he said, "Yes, we are doing it." I said, "Then the children must also do it." Our reform! And even if we don't, they can, but in a different place. But our duty is such that if we have to reform them then we should not forget our duty.

Now you should keep the children's attention that yadu sadu, do not eat these. And if you camp then after gaining this knowledge you should stop everything. That means they will do what they see as your reforms. Why were our parents called reformers before? They were very law-abiding and restrained then. And these are intemperate.

Parental and child behavior

Questioner: When the children grow up, how should we give them the knowledge of religion?

Dadashri: If you become Dharma, so will they

Behavior of parents towards children

will be The quality you have, the children will learn. Therefore, you yourself become righteous. We will learn by watching you. If you smoke, they will learn to smoke too. If you drink wine, they will also learn to drink wine. If you eat meat, you will learn to eat meat. They will learn exactly what you are doing. They will think that we will do better than them.

Question: If you teach in a good school, don't you get a good reform?

Dadashri: But, they are not all reforms. Apart from parents

Children are not reformed by anyone else. Reform belongs to the parents, the teacher. And more or less his circle of friends, his connections. Most of the reforms come from parents. If the parents are reformers, then the children will also be reformers, otherwise they will not be reformers.

Questioner: We send the child to 'India' for education, then are we not forgetting our responsibility?

Dadashri: No, you have not forgotten. You pay all his expenses. There are even schools where people from Hindustan send their children to study. There are good schools where you can eat and drink and live there.

Questioner: Dada, let the home-world remain peaceful and the inner soul also be protected.

Dadashri: Not only that, but the house world will be peaceful

Children will also become more reformed watching you. Seeing the madness of the parents, the children have also become mad. Why is the behavior of the parents not appropriate? Even the husband and wife behave inappropriately when the children are sitting, so what will happen if the children do not behave again? How to reform in children?

Parental and child behavior

Behavior of parents towards children

Must be polite! What is the effect of fire? Is even a small child afraid of fire? The mind of the parents has become fractured. The mind is confused. They say something, they say words that will make others sad. By this the children are spoiled. The wife says that the husband is sad and the husband says that the wife is sad. How should the parents of Hindustan be? They should teach the child and prepare him in such a way that all the reforms will pass him by the age of fifteen.

Question: Now the level of his reforms is starting to decrease. That's why all this is a problem.

Dadashri: No, no. Reforms are beginning to fade. Even so

Now the grandfather has been found, so he will bring the original reforms once again. As it was in the Satyuga, the Reformation will once again bring. A child of this Hindustan can carry the burden of the entire world, he is the owner of so much power. It just needs to be nourished. These are the eaters! Devourer means one who robs others from all sides for his own happiness. He who has given up his own happiness can give all happiness to others

But here Sethji stays in judgment only of Lakshmi all day long.

Then I have to say to Sethji that 'Seth, you have fallen behind Lakshmi and the house has been torn to pieces!' The girls are going in one direction with the motorbike, the boys are going in the other direction and where else are they going! Seth, you are robbed from all sides! Then Seth asked, 'What shall I do?' I said, 'Understand things and how to live life. Don't just follow money. Pay attention to the body, otherwise heart failure will occur. Attention to body, attention to money, attention to the reformation of girls, all corners are swimming. You are swimming a corner. Now one corner of Bengal will be destroyed and the rest of the place will be left in ruins. All corners are to be swept away. How can such a life be lived? So it's good to be with him

Parental and child behavior

Behavior of parents towards children

Use it, make a high reformer. Make these children highly reformed.

Do penance yourself, but make them reformers.'

Questioner: We try our best to improve them, but if they do not improve, why should we leave the ideal father as the dominant one?

Dadashri: No, but you try to do it your way, don't you? Do you have a certificate? tell me

Questioner: Let us try according to our wisdom.

Dadashri: Your intelligence means, I keep telling you that if a man is himself the judge, he is the criminal himself and the lawyer is himself, then how will he do justice?

Self-reformation comes with children. But there is a need to give color to that reform by hailing you.

It should never be abandoned. Their attention should be kept. If you leave it, it will disappear again.

Questioner: Yes, we do, but what should be left to Prarabda at the last stage?

Dadashri: No, can't leave. When the time comes to leave, then bring it to me. I will do the operation. We cannot leave it like this, it is dangerous.

A son pinched his father's nose, and the father was happy.

Said, 'My son Kemitika! Look, my nose is pulled!' Now, if you do as he says, the son will catch his nose and pull again and again, even then, if you don't say anything, what will happen? If nothing else, give the child a little pinch, if you pinch him, he will understand that it is not right. He will know that the way I am using is not right. Don't hit him hard, pinch him gently.

Parental and child behavior

Behavior of parents towards children

The father called the child's mother, who was baking bread. He said, 'What is the matter? I'm baking bread. 'You come here, come quickly, come quickly, come quickly!' He came running, 'What happened?? Then he says, 'Look, look, how much the son has become! Look, he raised his heel and took out twenty-five rupees from his pocket. I did very well today. Now I have learned such work.' And so he became a thief again. So what will happen? The knowledge that 'it is better to take money out of the pocket' was revealed to him. What do you think? What are you talking about? What should be done?

Where did such a fool (fool, fool) come from! They became father and sat down! Aren't you ashamed? Do you understand how this motivated the child? The child saw that 'I did a great deal of power!' Who said that the children will get 'encouragement' and who said that there will be harm, should he have a van (hose)? These are 'Untested Father' and 'Untested Mother'. Father radish and mother carrot, now tell me, how will the children be? What will happen? !

In other words, these parents did not get all this in Kyiv. And how much they give wrong 'encouragement'. He takes them for a walk. The wife says, 'hold the son' then the husband picks up the son. what will you do If he is stubborn and does not take it, the wife will say, 'Is the son mine alone?' If you say like this, then you have to divorce your spouse, is there any way to get rid of it? Where will he go? Let's go to the cinema with the child in our arms, run around. And how to get a child to reform?

A bank manager told me, 'Dadaji, I have never said a word to my wife or children. No matter how wrong you are, do anything, but I will not say anything.'

Behavior of parents towards children